How To Celebrate the Holidays With a New BF/GF

Celebrating the holidays with a new boyfriend or girlfriend can feel like a big deal, but it doesn’t have to be complicated. This time of year is full of opportunities to connect, have fun, and make memories without putting too much pressure on yourselves. Here are some simple, meaningful ways to enjoy the season together.

Share Your Traditions

Everyone has their own holiday go-tos, whether it’s decorating the tree while blasting Christmas music, baking cookies with family, or watching Elf for the hundredth time. Invite your boyfriend or girlfriend to join in on one of your favorite traditions, and ask about theirs, too. It’s a great way to learn more about each other and see what makes the holidays special for them.

Do Something for Others

The holidays are a great time to think beyond yourselves. Look for ways to serve together, like volunteering at a food bank, donating gifts to a toy drive, or writing cards for people in nursing homes. It doesn’t have to be a huge commitment — just something small to spread kindness. Take Acts 20:35 to heart, which says, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Plus, doing good together can be surprisingly fun.

Keep It Low-Key

You don’t need to plan anything elaborate to make the season special. Some of the best moments are the simplest ones. Go for a walk to check out Christmas lights, grab hot chocolate at a local coffee shop, or try your hand at building a gingerbread house (even if it ends up looking like a disaster). These little things can be just as meaningful as big plans.

Talk About Family Stuff

If meeting each other’s families is on the table, it’s worth having a quick conversation about what to expect. Are there any traditions, inside jokes, or quirks you should know about? This can help you both feel more comfortable and avoid any awkward surprises. And if meeting the family isn’t happening yet, that’s okay too — there’s no rush.

Remember What Christmas Is About

In the middle of all the busyness, take a moment to reflect on the heart of the season. Read the story of Jesus’ birth in Luke 2, or attend a Christmas Eve service together. It’s a simple way to focus on what really matters and share your faith in a natural way.

Make Your Own Traditions

While it’s fun to share old traditions, this is also a chance to create something new together. Maybe it’s picking out a quirky ornament for the tree, trying a new holiday recipe, or starting a silly tradition that’s just yours. These little things can become memories you’ll look back on, maybe for years to come!

The holidays don’t have to be perfect to be meaningful. Whether you’re laughing over a failed cookie recipe or just enjoying each other’s company, the most important thing is to be present and enjoy the season together.